Strangely enough the babies to follow are much less dramatic. The transition parents go through between the firstborns to the next is simply amazing – nothing fazes the second timers. They feel in charge of things, are much more prepared and aware. Their main concern and role becomes that of a referee and a guide for letting the second child fit in the already very snuggly tight trio. They are in a much better position to mock the first times, and mostly dads thoroughly enjoy this blessing. This is the same phenomenon which later on translates into what is called the ‘grandparents revenge’. I tell you they all secretly enjoy our miseries, its their time to sit back and enjoy the show! Mostly followed by the new parents come back with ‘in your time and day it wasn’t this tough..’ but trust me it’s just the same ….time and time again – it’s a circle of life and this is exactly how it works, every single time.